On the drawing table today

19 08 14

Our weekend // snippets

10 08 14
And a welcome downpour


Wedding card

05 08 14

Work in progress

Although technically we are already married and living together. And even before that I knew this relationship was some serious business. But now that I am designing our wedding card it really hits me. I'm going to walk down the aisle in two months. With shaking knees probably, not because of the commitment but because I'm nervous being "in the spotlight". I mean weddings kinda scare me. Just a little- I mean a lot. I mean no, it's gonne be great, but I'm kinda nervous.

If you have wedding card related advice, let me know.

Too hot outside, go to a museum

01 08 14

I visited the National museum again. This time taking a good look at the permanent collection, which-by the way- is totally free to visit! If you want to see what the outside of this beautiful museum looks like check out my post of the WKB welcoming dinner that was held there last month.


A view

30 07 14

Snippets

21 07 14

1. Cicadas are very busy finding a partner (I love their noise). They leave their old coats everywhere. You can go outside and easily find these in any tree or shrub. Then prick them on your clothes and wear them as a fancy brooch. 2. Our neighbours have an adorable rabbit and they let it run around in the hallway. If we leave the door open it comes around for a visit. I'm a cat-person but how can I resist this puff of fluff? 

3. Elvis at Dongmyo. 4.&5. Luckily Korea has Toblerone, so far the only chocolate I found that tastes like chocolate. And -Hurray- Lotus speculaasjes are super-popular here as well! 6. And look at the choice of beer! A lot more expensive but I'm happy it's here.


Dongmyo shrine

16 07 14

This weekend while visiting Dongmyo flea market. I stumbled upon Donggwanwangmyo (meaning "Eastern Shrine") better known as Dongmyo shrine. It's an ancestral shrine that was build in 1601. And here were ancesteral sacrifices and ceremonies performed in honor of the Chinese commander Guan Yu 


I loved the plants creeping up between the stones, the faded wall paintings. The charm of an old building.  


Location: 238-1, Sungin-dong, Jongno-gu, Seoul

Leaving the nest

13 07 14

Min Jae and I officially moved out of his parents house~Woo! But even though leaving the nest to start our own is exciting and fun, here are some things I learned to appreciate living with his family & will certainly miss:

Learning to appreciate silence: Just by comparison MJ's family is very quite. They speak calmly and there is never any commotion or discussion to be heard. I grew up in a pretty noisy family; loud discussions at family party's, in arguments- or just exciting conversations we tend to raise our voice, roaring laughter at jokes etc. None of that can be said about MJ's family, I've never ever heard his parents raise their voice or have an argument. I'm not saying one is better than the other, it is just remarkably different. 


Learning about togetherness: Koreans share small living spaces and they are used to spending a lot of time together. In MJ's family home all the doors are open all the time (except the bathroom of course).   Westerners are more attached to their private-space (And even by Western standards I'm kind of a loner) For me this aspect was pretty difficult to adjust to in the beginning.  As I'm used to be being by myself most of the time. 

I feel that there was always much understanding from his family regarding these cultural differences. And they always respected my boundaries while I tried to get into the Korean mindset. And gradually I learned to appreciate the presence of people around and I found myself leaving my door more open.

*note: It's not that I insinuate Western family's don't spend time together, just less in comparison

Learning the language: It's easier getting to know a language being surrounded by it. Simple sentences are easier to learn when you use them every day in your daily life; like I can say "Do you want coffee?" in 5 languages ~priorities. And living with them made some of these daily sentences feel almost natural to say. Hearing their conversations also helps me with learning a correct pronunciation.

My mother-in-law also made a lot of time for me to study Korean with her. She taught me how to read Hangul and during meals and cooking she would teach me all the names of the food.


Learning to cook Korean: My mother-in-law makes sure 3 times a day delicious food is served. And she spends quite some time cooking and prepping meals. It's very different to my Belgian lifestyle, where cooking is just once a day, for dinner (the rest is cheese and bread basically) And when I cook it's quick and easy. But in Korea I learned to appreciate the whole process of making many, many side dishes. All very healthy and perfectly complementing each other. (When I returned to Belgium in the fall I started missing her cooking)

Preparing dinner together with my mother-in-law made me more acquainted to Korean cuisine. And when MJ and I were planning to live together his mother made sure to give me some extra cooking classes.  I still can't compete with her skills, not even by a long shot ~ But no worries, after a visit she gives us plenty of boxes with food to take home.


Learning to communicate: There is obviously a language barrier communicating with my parents-in-law. Although I must say my mother-in-law has a talent for languages. She brushed of the English she learned in college and we communicate easily with a mixture of Korean and English. She even diligently studies it now. My father-in-law is a man of a few words but makes sure we communicate in a way, even if it is mostly encouraging me to eat more so I get a little more chubby. They also have an endless amount of patience dealing with my crummy Korean.

I am really grateful for the time I lived with his family as I could submerge myself in the Korean life style as well as getting comfortable around MJ's family; watching cooking shows on Sunday's, visiting family, talking about the news and current events, saying good morning and goodnight.

I even feel a little melancholic leaving their house (yes, as if it wasn't enough leaving my home country, I feel like I'm leaving twice >__<)
But no worries they only live a 15-minute walk away!


Our new home // work

03 07 14

Snippets of June

29 06 14

1. My mother-in-law gave me these slippers as a gift. A friend of hers made these. They are crazy comfortable. 2. Cute bread sponge! 3. I've missed rucola & mozarella so much. 4. Occasionally the husband and brother-in-law enjoy their dish of raw meat (육회) Thanks but no thanks. 5. It looks real, but it's just a plastic display of a restaurant 6. I caved in and bought some cheese at Chunk of Cheese in Itaewon. The price is actually a little cheaper than High Street Market. And my friend and I even got offered some wine tasting and cheese appetisers. I found this great recommendation at A fat girl's food guide. If you are looking for anything food-related in Seoul you should go check out her site!


1. My parents-in-law always have some food drying or fermenting around the house  2. We are having many rainy days with a good storm now and then. I'm not complaining. 3. Huge fishes in a small stream. 4. At the market. 5. Dried fish, the price for these fishes can run extremley high because they are such great quality. 6. Seoul is getting greener and greener.